Self Improvement Ideas

On this post, I decided not to discuss and go in-depth on a single idea but rather just share with you a few ideas I've gathered on how each of us can improve our lives greatly. I feel as though many people have so much potential within themselves but lack that "push" needed to reach that potential. That's why I'm here to provide that "motivation." So without further ado, here is a list of my self-improvement ideas.

1. Count your blessings - Before we proceed on to ways of improving yourself, you must realize that no matter how many aspects of your life may be negative, there is always something to be grateful for. Realize this and it shall help you immensely.

2. Stop complaining - It may seem easier said then done but it's actually not so difficult. Even if you feel as if you need to complain, do it to yourself and don't verbalize it. If you become a complainer, you'll surround yourself with others who complain as well, which will only enhance this unnecessary habit.

3. Surround yourself with positive souls - this one's a no-brainer but you'd be surprised at how many people don't chose this path. Positive people will always find a way to make you feel better and that's something you should always seek for. If you want to improve your life, surround yourself with one's whom will help you get there. Simple as that.

4. Prioritize - Know and realize who and what is important in your life. Don't associate yourself with one's who won't benefit you in any way. Realize that family is important, friends as well, same applies to academics. Prioritize yourself and decide what to keep and remove from your life.

5. Smile - Please realize how significant this is. It's an invitation for optimism in your life. A simple smile makes such a difference, it will work wonders for you. Whatever situation your in, whatever point in your life you may be at, stop for a moment and just....SMILE.

Now for some other ideas of which I will simply list.

-Give a compliment
-Create value
-Become disciplined
-Deepen your knowledge
-Be happy for others
-Give to just give
-Read the first chapter of that book you bought and never opened.
-Tell yourself "something good will happen today"

And finally....BELIEVE.

I hope these ideas were able to help you in some way. If you have any other thoughts or ideas, please let me know as I would appreciate your input. Comments are welcome.

Doing the right things for the wrong reasons

Would I be wrong in saying the following statement? "People are always searching for ways of improving their lives." Many would point out that not ALL people are searching for this but more than likely, the majority are. Whether this improvement may be financially, relationship-wise or the enhancement of personal looks. People are always seeking out ways to improve themselves, and that in itself is a very good thing.

However, the problem with this is that people will attempt to improve themselves for all the wrong reasons. Case in point - You donate to charity in hopes that you will gain publicity within society that you give to the needy (a trait which is viewed in a positive light in society) or you see that everyone around you is suddenly apprehensive about the environment and you decide to "go green" and recycle and assist in taking care of the planet a little bit better but only in hopes of receiving some sort of accommodation from those around that your doing the correct thing. So what have you just done? You've done the right thing for the wrong reason.

This is not an uncommon trait within society. It's on the minds of us all, but we should fight that "negative intention" and improve ourselves for all the right reasons. Take time out and think before you proceed on with whatever it is that you are doing & fill your mind and heart with the cleanest and purest intention on performing that task. I promise you that once you are able to accomplish this, you'll feel like a whole new person.